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Good submissions

• Describe a situation clearly enough that another person can understand the choice.
• Give 2–4 genuinely different answers.
• Remove details that are not needed to understand the dilemma.
• Use invented labels such as “my friend”, “my manager” or “a relative” instead of real names.
• Keep the choices neutral enough that the visitor can decide for themselves.

Do not submit

• Full names, home addresses, phone numbers, email addresses or social-media usernames.
• Information that makes a private individual easy to identify.
• Spam, advertising, referral links or promotional content.
• Threats, harassment, hate content or targeted humiliation.
• Explicit sexual content.
• Instructions for illegal or dangerous wrongdoing.
• Malicious code or attempts to interfere with the site.
• Copied Reddit posts, forum posts, articles or other content you do not have the right to submit.
• Unverified accusations that identify private people.

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Every submission is reviewed before publication. We may correct small errors, remove identifying details, shorten unnecessary wording or adjust answer wording for clarity. We may reject anything that is unsafe, overly identifying, promotional, low quality or otherwise unsuitable.

Serious situations

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